The other woman can’t call him or see him when she wants to.Eventually those sneaky late night phone calls end abruptly with “I gotta go!
”, and perceives this as being put first (the one thing that women want to feel in a relationship).
By this time, she is more than likely already aware of the fact that he is unhappy in his marriage and the more time she spends with him she makes sure to plea her case as to why he should be with her instead.
Building a life with someone with constant progression and growth is necessary for a healthy relationship.
Just because he says he loves her does not mean that he will do what it takes to prove it to her.
Unfortunately, even if she is not ready to admit it, her subconscious desire is for him to make the dream come true, and leave his wife.
The worst thing to do is sleep with the married man as once the adultery is official, the dynamic of the relationship drastically changes.
The man more than likely plays into this often times telling her things such as “I wish I could have met you years ago”.
This makes her feel as if the only thing keeping them apart is the ring on his finger.
This a cowardly way to handle the situation and nothing short of him growing a set of balls and leaving is going to change that fact.