Patty Blue Hayes, an author and life coach specializing in heartbreak recovering, told Daily Mail Online that if 'your partner falls into the category of an emotional manipulator, it is likely you may have some limiting beliefs about your self-worth'.Patty advised that you should listen to affirmations when you are getting ready, out for a walk or traveling to work because they will start to have a positive effect on your understanding that you are deserving of respect.For example, an emotional manipulator may know that you are feeling self-conscious about gaining a few pounds, yet instead of being supportive, they will call you out for having a third slice of pizza when you are hanging out with your friends.
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'An emotional manipulator will not take responsibility for their actions.
Instead, they will place blame and claim their response was justified based on something you did.
Someone who is an emotional manipulator will always make their partner question the validity of their feelings.
On the flip side, an emotional manipulator who refuses to communicate their needs will get angry when you don't meet them, leaving you constantly waiting for them to get upset about something you've unknowingly failed to do.'Jot down a few positive aspects about yourself on a daily basis and keep re-reading them,' she added.'You can rally support of friends and family, asking them to let you know what they like about you.'Patty said you should ask your partner if they would be interested in improving your communication skills as a couple.There are countless how-to guides on attraction flooding the web, yet most of them leave you none the wiser. And who better to ask other than 21 of the world’s best female dating experts! NOTE: If you want to attract one “special” girl and make her your girlfriend we shared 20 steps to getting a girlfriend here.According to Beatty, emotional manipulators are only concerned about their own needs and wants.